A CHRISTIAN MINISTER in the Northwest asks a question which he has encountered in pastoral counseling. “Is it ever okay (from God’s perspective) to lie?”
One of the Ten Commandments forbids bearing “false witness” (see
Deuteronomy
In light of such Scriptural teaching, I do not know how anyone could seriously say that lying is ever “right.”
On the other hand, people who live in a fallen world
sometimes have to choose between the lesser of two evils. When Corrie ten
Boom’s family was hiding Jews from the Gestapo in Nazi-occupied
Rahab lied to the
This is entirely different from “situation ethics,” a philosophy set out in the 1960’s by liberal theologian Joseph Fletcher. Fletcher argued that love is the highest value and the ultimate good, and that the person who acts “lovingly” does not do wrong when he commits adultery, or when she tells a lie, or does anything else that violates traditional rules of morality. Such an ethic invites abuse, for sinful humans can always justify whatever they wish to do—especially by such a wispy standard as “love.” In fact, whoever truly loves God and neighbor chooses not to violate God’s law but rather fulfills it (see Romans 13:8-10).
No, lying is never “right,” even though there might be rare times when it seems clearly the lesser of two evil choices. In such limited situations—which involve the protection of human life, for example, and not merely avoiding personal pain or obtaining personal pleasure or profit— the person who lies still needs to beg God’s forgiveness for having done something which, in itself, is never morally right.